Love?

Ok, I guess its time for me to give my twenty five cents on the subject! :)

Love is the Universal word of acceptance, joy, and intimacy.
But ironically the word is so open that the definition is always fleeting.
Everyone seems to have their own personal definition of what they think Love is.
In the Law of Attraction the word Love is defined by your thoughts and actions.
“What is Love to you?” Could love be the one word that can unify a nation, or the magic password to a beneficial life? I really don’t know, but I have heard enough comments about the word to last me a life time.

I know so many loving people that are struggling to live with the disappointment in what they thought were love. The disappointment comes from the feeling of being tricked or lied too. Yes, they promised you the moon or just too simply love you faithfully, only to discover they really did not do, any of what they promised. When ever you are the victim of lies, or participate in a lie, you risk the chance of blaming your self for allowing this kind of disaster in your life, all in the name of having love.

No one want to feel like they are being duped or fooled, or emotionally tricked, so the hurt of being caught up in the promise of what you have been told, hurts deeply. Listen closely to your internal gut; this feeling was given to you, to prevent you from allowing this to happen to you. If you question it, don’t dismiss it just to live the fantasy, or pretend it is not showing you a red flag! Don’t let one or many disappointments poison your heart from something real. We all have been on the love fantasy ride, just know that you can always get off the ride and plant your feet on solid ground.

Let’s look at it this way, if you purchased a gallon of milk from the store and brought it home, once opened it you discover that it was spoiled. Would you vow to never drink milk again or break out in tears, because the gallon you picked was spoiled? I truly hope not, best bet is that you would bring it back to the store you purchased it from, collect the money you spent or get a fresh gallon! Oh, make sure this time that you check the date before you purchase. LOL

As a child it was ingrained in me that love was meant to be of honor, your true love always keeping their word, they appeared strong and able to provide for their lovers needs. This thought was quickly replaced with the reality that no one person in your life can be the magic answer to your needs. Being a television baby, I witnessed the noble knight and Prince Charming often stealing the heart of many maidens. This made up fiction would always be the hero and perform his or her duty of rescuing the person from their life of trials, only to bring them to true love and happiness. This story always ended living happily ever after so the story goes. Well as I grew up, we all come to find out that as in any fairy tale, our modern day Prince and Princes simply does not exist in past day form. So how do we attract real love? How do we turn our modern day frog or frog-ett into a Prince or Princess?

Well, with anything in this massive Universe, it starts with our selves; you must believe and focus on the love that you want. Let go of past hurts and stop dwelling or talking about the bad relationships if you want something better. In this process of relationships and love, we often look to others to rescue, deliver or give to us, the missing void in our lives to make us complete. Take some time to figure out what love means to you, understand what it feels like in your own presence. If our Creator is constantly giving us unconditional and infinite love, “Why is it so hard for us to return the same kind of love to each other?

I have heard so many discussions on how to find love, be in love, attract love etc.
Love is no consolation prize for doing the right things in our lives or for our selves.
Self discovery will bring you so very close to your goal of love and support. Take time to discover what it is you want from a mate, lover or friend. Open your heart to look at your life first. What are you doing in your life right now that says I am open to give and receive love?

I often speak with someone I call my Soul advisor, we often speak of our ideal mate, comparing notes and making metaphors. Last we spoke, we talked about how to find our mate, and we metaphorically compared our ideal mate to the different flavors of ice cream. We talked about there being an array of flavors to choose from. We talked about finding that one flavor that has a taste much different then any other flavor we have ever had. My personal love choice is that one flavor that is soothing, and exotic, something that is rare yet available for me to have. Although you have to maybe go, out your way or to a special store to find it, you can still see it faithfully and consistently in the frozen section.

Understand; once you find the flavor you fancy, be sure to take advantage of partaking in it. Yes, this is something new and different then your basic Chocolate or Vanilla, and it may only be offered for a limited time. But, to risk tasting it will allow you to acquire a taste for something better then anything you have ever had
P.S. be very careful that you don’t get the generic brand, it taste close to the flavor you like, but it has synthetic ingredients that can easily fool you. Get serious about finding your Love, Soul Mate, and Spouse in your life focus on what you want! Find your personal flavor and focus on enjoying and having it, and then you will find your love. As for the (Prince and Princess theory), we are made in the image of our Creator, we all come from royalty, So lets claim our true birth rights and treat our selves and others like the Kings and Queens we truly are!!
Love, Peace N Much Respect!
GIA