Relationships!

Understanding who you are and what you require will give you the power to create great things in your life! Relationships sometimes can go haywire, communication breaks down, and understanding, love and honesty seems to pack its bag and leave the scene of a dying relationship. “The question is how do you revive or replace the broken down relationship?” Love can be tricky and sometimes it seem like it’s fleeting in our lives. But, we must do the work to make things right, and as in any crime scene an investigation must be done. Find time this year to look back at your past relationships or encounters and go over them with a CSI like attitude.

This process will help you to see the missed signs and or what your part of the break down in the situation was. We are sometimes too quick to place blame or point the finger when indeed; the other person only did to us what we allowed. Take a close look at what went on, and what their expectations were for you, ask your self if either party really lived up to what was being asked of each other. Maybe you don’t have the answers because the other party left with out any explanation.

If this is the case, then examine your self. If a person walks away from you or leave your relationship don’t run after them or rack your brain trying to figure it out. It may be that these people don’t want to hurt you, by giving their real reason for leaving. People will come and go in your life, if someone walks away, don’t try to hold them. A caged animal is not one to mess with, they will find away to break free.

If you are just starting a blooming romance then an interview is in order. The questions asked in this interview should be no different then if you are to employ this person, your heart is precious and should be handled with care. Too often we allow those that are not properly qualified to handle us. Would you really give a 2 year old a fine piece of crystal to play around with? I think not, if this is your situation, I implore you to take heed and not allow the unqualified to do the same with your heart.

Realigning your focus can bring forth great joy and happiness. Spend some time deciding what you really want and require from someone before you proceed down the path of hook ups and relationships. Each time you allow you’re self to connect with someone a part of you will be gifted to that person and a part of them will be gifted to you. Now just like a White Elephant Christmas you may get a trick gift! If any of you know the white Elephant gifting process then you know that someone gets a chance to randomly choose a gift out of all the gifts brought. Ok, it’s your turn to choose so naturally you grab the prettiest gift that may attract your eye with out checking out the others. Once a gift is chosen, once opened you may be very pleased with it, so you hold it up then it is viewable for all to see, if others find your gift attractive they have the right to decide if they want to pick a gift or take the gift you choose. On that note any gift according to the rules can be taken from you by someone else who seems to think it’s a great gift also.

So, if your gift is taken, then once again you must choose another gift. But, this time in your choosing you seem to use a different approach, this time your don’t grab the first gift that has a pretty package, this time you probably will study the gifts long and hard. You look at the wrapping; you may shake it or even smell it before you choose it. Understand that every relationship that is presented to you as a gift must be examined. You may have this gift already or it may be just what you needed. So take some time to see what is being offered to you. If this is a new gift that you have never seen before, then read the instruction manual that comes with it, if it’s a duplicate of what you have had before, make a decision if you need two of what it is or if you have enough of what ever it is.

This gift is familiar; you should know how it works. Remember just because you had it before and it was good, dose not mean that you need the same gift. Maybe the gift no longer fits with in what you want or what your expectations are. We all seek to be loved and give love, but we must first know our selves well enough to know exactly what we want. Once we ask the Creator will oblige our request and desires. Now, sometimes our request is not answered, this could be because of many factors.

Maybe we are not clear in our request or maybe we are not equipped or have shown good stewardship to be able to handle what we have requested of the Universe or the Creator. This will slow our receiving of our request down or move it in to park. We attract what we ask for, we attract who we are. As hard as this is to believe, understand that we have been giving the will to want and request and receive from our Creator. So before you open a gift make a list of what you want check it twice and expect to get what you ask for!

Love, Peace N Much Respect!
Gia