Self Doubt!

How many times are you going to speak about what you are going to do? Do you find your self saying I am going to do this when I get this or that? If you find that you are using these phrases more then once a week, you may need a self doubt check!!

As you proceed through life, there will be opportunities to really shine and show your stuff, allowing the world to see exactly what you are made of. These opportunities are often missed because of the lack of doing verses talking. I am not a fan of haters in any way, but I also know that we can be our very own hater. An internal hater is that internal voice that tells you, that you can’t do something or that you don’t deserve it we are most times our worst critics.

Have you ever wanted something and no matter how hard you tried it just seem to be close enough to reach out and touch, just too only elude you after trying? This can be very frustrating and discouraging, but know that you are not alone and this process can be changed.

There is nothing wrong with talking out loud about your plans or dreams, but know that by doing this without making sure the environment is safe, is just like giving your top secret plans to enemies! I know you are thinking, why is it that I have to watch others but also myself? Understand that you have an internal critic that can cause you to fall off your course and become fearful and flooded with doubt. Know in your spirit that you can prevent your internal critic from becoming the enemy to your dreams.

There are no dreams to small or large, if you thought it up then it can be achieved!
So many of us, allow our internal critic to tell us, that our thoughts are stupid or to hard, only to turn on the television or read the paper about someone else that had the same dream and accomplished it. Yesterday we talked about watching our thoughts, now we must also monitor what we say and how we think about the very thing we say we want.
You may think this is a lot of work and it’s just easier to not do anything! By not doing anything, you are taking the easy way out, this way no one can say you are getting besides your self because you have nice things, nor can they accuse you of changing or not being down, because you take a different path. There will always be fearful bystanders and naysayers accusing you of being a dreamer or lazy or lackadaisical or an over achiever. But, understand that this is not their dream, it’s yours and what others think about you or your dream really is not your business!

So, think responsibly and stop the traffic on your own critic. If you want something, make a plan and get at it! Everything is out there for the taking, there is more then enough for everyone to get what they want, and it’s just that some will reach higher for their dreams while others will wait for their dreams to fall on the ground in front of them.

Love, Peace N Much Respect
GIa