Expectations!

What Do You Expect!

Expecting different results? Then why are you doing the same thing?
Often times we enter in to situations with expectations and perceptions, as
to what we want from or think others should do. The quickest mistake a person can make is to assume that you and another are on the same page with out asking. Yes, even when you ask you may not receive the true answer. We are now living in a world of many attitudes, moods and ideals. We are constantly bombarded by insinuations and opinions of what society wants us to think. By knowing your own spirit and expectations you are able to pin point, exactly what you want.

Romance, money and the work place are often the main areas of missing expectations.
We ask not, so we receive not. By not stating what you want to others, you will find your self hemming and hawing around until you will have exhausted your chances to receive your goal. Every action has a reaction and when there are expectations with out communication then you are setting your self up for failure.

1. Take some reflection time and ask your self “What do I want to happen here?”
2. How does my life benefit from this?
3. What am I willing to do, to achieve this?
4. What do I need from ___________ to achieve what I want?
5. Is there fear in asking?
6. Learn to let go, and walk away! Sometimes leaving it will change things.
7. Keep a positive attitude.
8. Remember to ask what (love) means to your mate, you may have different ideals.
9. Be willing to make adjustments, being flexible can add a renewing to any situation
10. Don’t blame or accuse, speak in “I feel” dialect. Honor yourself, by saying what you feel, then ask for a rebuttal

Your expectations are the result of what you have in your life right now!

Love, Peace, N Much Respect!
GIA
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