Everyone is a buzz about the speech that Michelle Obama made at the Democratic convention yesterday. The words she spoke were of love, respect and honor for her Family, Country and most of all her Husband. Although I have never been married, I recognized the realness of her expression; I understood the tone in her voice and the admiration in her heart of truly loving someone. We all have a built internal odometer that tells us when something is good or when something is not right. I felt the good as everyone else did. I too want to be able to feel that respect and admiration for my love ones. Any person would be proud to have someone love them so true and real.
We all can take notes from Mrs. Obama, to learn to love with out haste. Although the Obama’s were sweethearts early in life, it truly seems as though their love has grown and flourished through the years. Now, Sisters and Brothers, I am very aware of the messed up, foul situations that you may have experienced, to that I say, if you want to be loved unconditionally then learn to love that very way. Michelle has something to be proud of a spouse of integrity and honor.
So many of us want that perfect ideal of a spouse but, are lacking in so many ways our selves! Men, if you want your woman to adore you and have that Michelle glow, then give them something to be proud of. So many women are survivors of hurt, pain and shameful relationships. The romance starts out happy, with hope and joy only to become a burden of sadness, lies and sometimes despair. How can you expect your woman to speak of you in respect, when you have lowered your self from the high standards that a head of the household should be in? Is your spouse carrying the weight of the family?
When a home or relationship is out of order, it can lend it self to be the breeding ground for the enemy to separate and destroy the foundation of the relationship.
Women, if you want your man to become the apple of your eye, check your self first. Are you truly giving him the chance to be the head, or are you doing the things that he needs to be doing, because he is not doing things to your liking? You may want him to act better or compare him to your father or what ever male figure you admire. Know that we are all individuals and we all don’t move in the same pace or time frame. So stop playing both parts of the relationship. Allow him to show you, who he is and what he is made of. Sometimes a person work best under stress, so let him have a little heat and space. We rescue our men and then complain about doing the rescuing! We say I need a real man, but when a man show up we tear him down, because of past hurts and only to gain control of nothing. Be careful what you ask for!
I know that some people and situations are not able to become the love of anyone’s life, most cases these victims of a lost heart are struggling to find their own heart and place in this world. But, if you are lucky enough to find someone decent to love, then don’t be afraid to open your heart. God will allow you to think that you are running your life, until one day, he will decide that you have made enough mud pies, which when you were small they were your pretend pies. The Creator will grant you the real thing; he will give you the filling for a good pie with filling and crust!
Love, Peace N Much Respect
Gia
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