What is your love language saying about you?
Looking back when you were just a toddler learning to walk, our Parents, Grandparents and others around us, made it their job to try and guide us in to society, by teaching us how to speak and how to walk. One of the important words other then Mama and Daddy was (thank you). Gratitude is an important feeling for Law of attraction to work. When we speak of being grateful and use our words to express the feelings, we are simultaneously sending out a message to the Universe that generates a positive vibration of the feeling. This vibration will seek out a matching vibration and help us manifest something physical that will make us feel just as wonderful as being grateful.
Gratitude is based on love and how you show your love and respect for people, situations or things. This process is called your love language. Although it is noted that we all have different ways of showing our love language, we all are seeking the same result of showing our gratitude by demonstrating loving things to one another. Some of us speak in silence feeling that our actions are louder then words, we may have respect and love for a person, only to hope that they can see our intent through our actions. But sadly to say this process often falls short of being appreciated because we miss the chance to gain a real connection through communication.
In this case Men often find them selves in this category because of the need to maintain that poker face at all time. Your voice and words are powerful tools that so many of us fail to use. Saying thank you is more then just a by line after someone do something for you. Saying thank you out loud is a way of honoring a person with respect. It is stated in the Bible that our Creator loves the sound and act of Gratitude, giving thanks allows us to have blessings bestowed upon us. So why is it so hard to give thanks openly to our peers and our love ones?
The language of touch or giving is all important in the act of showing gratitude and love. But learning to use your voice to glorify others is a power that is truly under utilized. If I do something nice for you and you give me a hug or a kiss or buy me flowers or cut my yard or buy me a card, yes, these are all nice gestures of gratitude and greatly appreciated of being reciprocal. But what would happen if you simply say thank you. Well the first reaction would be the Universe would hear your gratitude, then maybe in conjunction to the other things you do, the act of speaking could set off a vibration that would stir up love, maybe a new relationship, maybe a renewed relationship and many other blessings that would take very little to generate.
Don’t get me wrong, action is awesome when you are speaking love, but speaking intent and showing gratitude is very powerful. Try it, this process of speaking phrases of gratitude and intent are amazing, try saying “Thank you, I apologize, I care, I appreciate you, I need you, Please forgive me, or even Excuse me, using these phrases can bring about great change. Yes, these are all words we were taught but are often taken for granted. Think of how many relationship that could have been saved or enlightened by using these simple words that we were taught as toddlers. To be different you have to do something different, start using your voice and see how different and wonderful life can be!!
I love you, Thank You!
Love, Peace N Much Respect!
Gia
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