Friday, May 7, 2010

I Need An Answer Now!

You can think that you are good at some things, but when you start to truly believing that you are good at all things, then you become amazing! :p

I woke up this morning seeking answers from the Universe, trying to mull over questions ,and trusting God would give me the answers. As I spoke and waited I found myself in a anxious wait like mode, as if I was on a game show! Here I am God, contestant number one, and I am asking God questions and as expected by so many of us, I want the answer to come quick, and concise, big, like a instant prize on a game show.

Sometimes we become so caught up in waiting on the burning bush fan fare, that we forget that God answers us on his own terms. I think if we truly got one of those Hollywood answers from God, that we would probably wet our pants lol. So God knowing us like he does, gives us gentle believable answers that fit just right in to our lives. Maybe your answers are right in front of you, or maybe it’s coming from a stranger or a close friend. I feel that when we ask for clarity on something, that we need to ponder over why we are asking. I had a friend say that she was seeking clarity over a relationship, and as we spoke she talked about all the things that were red flags and how she wanted to make sure that going in to a relationship was the right thing to do.

I posed the question to her “ Why do you ask, if this is the man for you and you truly want to be with him then why do you question the goodness of this relationship. See the funny thing about this is I myself have posed the same question and the answer I got was “How do you want this to turn out?” We have a choice as to how our relationships will go; do we have unrealistic expectations of others or ourselves? Let’s go in to relationships with high expectations of happiness and enjoying each other, why not let the chips fall where they may. Yes, disappointment can happen, but only when there are expectations of failure. Sometimes we have to get pass ourselves and truly take an optimistic approach.
Believe that everything is going to be wonderful, whatever wonderful mean to you.
Love, Peace and Much Respect!
Gia

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Well, I would like to take it a step further. Relationships are mystical if they are not truthful from the start. You can be with someone for a long time as I was for seventeen years and find out that you really didn't know that person at all. If the person is not truthful with you then it want work. The question I ask when I wake up in the morning is, "What is my purpose today"?

Cham